Think Family, Happiness and Strive to be financially secure.
Do you think family when you are at home, 
about the happiness and good times you share or focus more on how to be financially secure?
Having met your soul mate and best friend, you will come to the point of realisation that they are ‘the one’ and start the process of setting up life together. Those traditionalists amongst us that want to get married, we tend to go headlong into our marriage in a daydream of ideals, believing in family values and that marriage is for life. We think family, happiness and make plans to hopefully be financially secure.
In today’s liberal society, one of the more unfortunate side effects is a high divorce rate. More and more couples for many varied reasons finding that their marriage doesn’t go according to their original dreams or ideals.
Minor irritations have been likened to the dripping tap torture. Initially you barely notice them but as time goes by the minor irritations continue ‘dripping’, on and on, and on and on until they become ‘major annoyances’ and the subject of many an argument. One thing leads to another and eventually couples get to the point where they struggle to find the good points in their partner and what it was that they fell in love with.
For most, surviving divorce is an art form. Even if they’ve known for some time that things weren’t working out, the final decision to part will come as a shock. Even once it’s over, it can take months for reality to sink in. It is not uncommon for some people to find themselves fantasising about reunion and reconciliation, or even recriminations.
Evidence suggests age 50 plus males will tend to place high importance on looks, the ability to cook and a good lover. Whereas age 50 plus females place emphasis on finding a partner who will think family happiness and help them be financially secure.
The truth is we’re all individuals and will have our own very specific qualities that we look for in a partner, our viewpoint will be unique. The trick is finding someone that shares our dreams, ideals and goals and at the same time is able to cope with our idiosyncrasies.
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Comments
When I think family, as a woman, that is my happiness. I have learned that financially secure is a misnomer. It doesn’t matter how much you think you are financially secure, those things can disentigrate quickly. Job loss, foreclosure, death, loss of a child, or other events can put into perspective how much happiness financial security brings. It surely makes things easier sometimes, but ultimately, when you think happiness, you think family.
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