What is love? Baby don’t hurt me
I’m sure you remember the lyrics to this amazing song what is love? Baby don’t hurt me then in a softer tone no more. It has been sung by a number of amazing singers all of which have really done credit to an excellent song. What is it that makes it so popular; love is there to make us happy, so why does it hurt so often? Why do things go so drastically wrong and people end up getting hurt.
Individuals get close and say they are in love that they love their partners but then hurt one another with a careless comment or inappropriate deed. Unfortunately peoples perception of love often don’t match, men for example tend to be much more focussed on the physical side of love whereas girls want the emotional fairy tale, and happy ever after scenario.
In society today everyone is looking for love, there are so many emotional love stories in the media, girly magazines are all about who met who, or who kissed someone they shouldn’t have. Or should they, maybe its just the social acceptance of an individuals behaviour which causes the issue in the first place rather than something which will damage the relationship.
Why is it that many of us are out looking for love and frown on those who find love in an unusual environment. “I kissed a girl and I liked it, I kissed a girl just to try it” an excellent lyric but is it popular because of the words or the inference of forbidden lesbian love?
Is your goal in life to love and be loved or is it the socially acceptable normality, which drives you to find love and a stable relationship? Can you really feel love by instinct or is it a learned behaviour imposed on us during our upbringing? Do your emotions drive you towards the one you love or is there some innate attraction which you cannot avoid pulling you towards your lover?
Comparing the human “mating ritual” with that of the natural world of animals all around us, why do we interfere with natural selection, the means by which a species evolves and improves its chances of survival? If you were a ferocious lion you would compete with other males for the attention of the pride. Why is it that we protect the inferior ones and give them equal opportunities to the rest of us. Do we really want to increase the risk of extinction of our species?
If a woman cannot bear children and you have already sworn, “till death do us part” during your wedding vows you are taking your genes out of the gene pool. Whereas if polygamy were socially acceptable you would still stand a chance of reproducing yourself with or without a loving relationship.
Society prevents us from preventing or restricting those who are not in peak physical condition, but maybe mental agility has a part to play in the selection process. After all how much strength do you need in reality to operate a computer?
How does it make you feel when you see a sick child in ITU being cared for, know that thousands 
are being spent to sustain the life of a child. Where that child is guaranteed to be disabled in some way and learning and or social difficulties, what pushes us to do everything we can to care for that child?
It must be love, which drives us on, there is no rational explanation for wasting cash on a hopeless cause. Particularly when you consider how many homeless people you could house for the cost of just one day in the intensive care environment. Are you willing to pay the price caused someone else’s condition? Taking this one step further are you willing to pay the price caused by another individuals anti-social behaviour? Smoking we all know affects development of the foetus so why do we allow mothers to continue smoking? Why don’t they love their baby inside them enough to look after the foetus from its first conception not wait until the birth?
Homo sapiens fall in love mate and form a “loving” bond with their partner to last a lifetime. Why then do some individuals leave the relationship, do they really fall out of love, why do they hurt the ones they love by leaving them to cope alone. The promotion of monogamy by society pushes couples together to the exclusion of all others, but natural selection would have a higher chance of success if the gene pool were mixed more widely.
Should we then all develop into horny swingers for the good of the long term development and survival of our species. Who knows, if any of us could see the future maybe love could be everlasting since we could avoid all the pitfalls before they even happen.
Why is it that society frowns on those who practice the swingers lifestyle, maybe its the risk of infection and an epidemic which could wipe out the human race. We introduced an epidemic our selves to the rabbit population in the UK, but they still survive so this argument is flawed.
Our leaders the kings and queens, politicians and ecclesiastic rulers cannot produce sufficient numbers of healthy children to dominate the world. Maybe this is why society and our world filled with social ethics and laws to govern our actions, is designed to prevent us from generating sufficient numbers to take over. After all everyone knows there is strength in numbers.
Look around you at the people you are with, is it love? or just a fairy tale you are living in today, would you be happier in a polygamous environment?
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